Superficially speaking, he has all of the requirements I'm looking for in a mate. He's tall (6'3''), has all his hair, a gorgeous smile, arms for days, a hairy chest (yay!) and made me laugh with his quick wit and humor. Plus, he works with his hands, drives a pick up truck, is father to a couple of dogs, close to my age, never married and has zero children. He's also taken by me and told me so, both in person and via text - although I wonder if he really is, or if he just wants to get into my pants.
He is the kind of guy that I feel like a million bucks standing next to, because he is so darn good looking. He's also the kind of guy that I would totally want to flaunt to my friends. (That sounds horrible - but I just think back to this guy and how uncomfortable I was even thinking about that.) I personally feel that we are a decent match.
Our make-out session, which happened back at his place, was tender and exciting. He's a great kisser, and although I did allow his hands to wander a little bit, we both kept our underthings on and pulled up. (I had to hold myself back!) I could feel what he was packing and I know I will be quite happy with it.
There are some red flags though - and please...if anyone thinks I am being retarded, just say so!
- His name reminds me of someone I HATE with a passion.
- He is in the same kind of work as my ex - which led to a lot of frustration over long, strange hours and unfinished projects.
- He likes women who sport a very "clean" hairstyle in a very private place.
He sounds awesome! Are any of those 3 things dealbreakers for you? (They wouldn't be for me, but we're all different!) Maybe you can come up with a nickname for him, to address issue #1? And have a conversation re issue #2? Issue #3 strikes me as worth giving in on....
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